Penpal message / wishes: Looking for someone to chat to about anything and everything. I am married, early 40s, work a lot and have a few interests. Happy to chat to anyone. Send me something that I will enjoy and to a put a smile on my face
I'm a 52 year old divorced American female currently residing in Washington DC. Looking for fun chats with English men in between 45 and 57 with a great sense of humor. I'm relatively intelligent, very open-minded, and love to laugh.
*Not looking for a hubby here but would prefer single or divorced men just to avoid the drama.
Penpal message / wishes: No relationship, no scammers. I’m here for actual Penpals
Hey there, future penpal!
I'm Zara, 29, a professional overthinker and enthusiastic dabbler in way too many interests. I get super into things-history, human behavior, random niche topics-but once I feel like l've cracked the code, I'm already onto the next obsession. Life's too short to only explore one lane, right?
Right now, I'm at a crossroads, figuring out what I want to do career-wise. I used to dream of an artistic path, but now I keep it as my creative escape while I search for something that lets me travel, stay organized (because I weirdly love that), and work both solo and with a team.
Basically, I want a job that keeps my brain engaged without making me feel like I'm trapped in a cubicle forever.
I love being around people-despite the fact that some drive me up a wall. Observing personalities, behaviors, and little quirks is endlessly fascinating to me. I also enjoy structured days with clear goals, but I need a little spontaneity to keep things interesting.
What about you? What's something random you're obsessed with? Ever thought about running away to join the circus? No? Just me?
Excited to hear from you!
Zara
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Hobbies:Arts, Crafts, Music, Anime, Video Games, Poetry, Curiosities, Criminology, Journaling, Plants, etc. Penpal message / wishes: 30-something artsy-fartsy, anxiety riddled hermit and over-thinking perfectionist. Gothic. INTJ. LaVeyanist. Best friends with cats. Child free. Anime junkie. Lover of cheese. Serial gamer. Music obsessed. Logical. Silent observer. Self aware. Sarcastic to a fault. A tad melancholic. Complicated and quirky with an "old soul" nature. You might say, a bit (lot) of a weirdo drawn to the darker side of things. I'd probably liken myself to a common spider; a shy, nocturnal avoider of humans, quietly spinning my web in a darkened corner.
Hoping for a pen friend or two. I struggle to find other similarly odd folks like myself, meaning I've a few acquaintances but relatively zero actual friends. In truth, I've always felt like a bit of an imposter as well as a little outcast due to my likes, interests, straightforward persona and generally dark demeanour. While I'm fully accepting of who I am, own my oddness and try not to care what others think (people don't like different, after all), I do still feel out of place and find it difficult to make connections. Which is why I enjoy the slow back and forth of a pen pal correspondence; it's easier for me to speak candidly whilst minimizing the anxiety in written form. (I also enjoy having an excuse to break out my fancy papers, tapes and whatnot.)
So... I'm hoping to share interests, stories, daily life via handwritten letters. Maybe even small gifts, little bits and bobs eventually. Fellow artists are more than welcome; I would absolutely adore having an arty (or otherwise creative) person to write with. Perhaps we could art trade? None arty folks are equally welcome, too.
Ultimately, all I'm seeking is honesty and clarity. After being burned a few times in the pen pal world I'm now a little jaded and dubious about the whole thing, yet still remain hopeful that there are one or two others out there invested in the process and truly yearning for a written friendship.
(Please note that I have already found my companion in life and am NOT seeking anything more than a strictly PLATONIC pen friendship. I've no interest in a relationship, emotional affair, etc. I also don't wish to see your genitals, thank you; my partner's are more than adequate.)
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