To begin, I have to say I'm not a suave, hunky stud muffin with the rock hard abs who immediately turns heads upon entering a room, nor do I tend to impress with busting a move or zippy one-liners. Success isn't my middle name, you won't see a surplus of dollars oozing from my ears. Not a well to do, debonair executive who will swing by in a shiny Mercedes and whisk you off to some swanky five star restaurant for some exotic cuisine. I can be rather shy at times though able to warm up quickly depending on the person, environment etc.
What you will see exuding from me however, is lots of sincerity, respect, thoughtfulness, loyalty, sensitivity and warmth combined with ample doses of affection, heaped on top of an unmistakeable foundation of honesty. I am down-to-earth, I love to laugh, and even though I can probably crack an egg better than a joke (barely, since cooking isn't one of my attributes lol), a sense of humor is by no means lacking! Also I do not hold high regard for the materialistic things. Substance and depth rank above flash and casualness to these eyes. I am not a bar-hopping, trash-talking, skirt-chasing pervert who only thinks about one thing. Whatever may be in vogue, trendy or in style is of little importance to me. I firmly believe being a gentleman never goes out of style. The simple moments in life are what I cherish the most..a brilliant sunset, pitter patter of rain, cheerful chirp of a bird, the scrunching of fresh snow underfoot, savoring some comfort food, hearing a long-forgotten favorite song on the radio..all enriched with that someone by your side. I do not pretend to be anyone else, nor do I play games. The ones that matter are those where nobody loses. I speak softly and carry a big heart. I consider other's needs before my own, and refrain from judging people on outward appearances..you know, the book by its cover. The chapters inside may be well worth a read. So, ladies, if this sounds good to you, and you're the type who can never have enough hugs like myself, please take my hand.. and join me as we stroll along the fields of companionship, and see what blooms!
I have a deep interest in lighthouses, learning about them as well as collecting replicas. ( I just built a Lego model!)
From my perspective, not only are they marvelous structures, representing nostalgic simpler times of yesteryear, they can be symbolic. Whenever I visualize a vessel attempting to navigate its way to safe harbor, battling huge waves--and guided by the reassuring beacon of a lighthouse--I also picture a human being, dealing with his or her own strife, struggling through the choppy waters of adversity.. and finding cozy refuge in the arms of a precious loved one.
I also believe that finding a significant other is like discovering a four leaf clover..may not be easy to come across, but once you do, how lucky is that!!
Just want to be up front. Maybe some of you relate to this. In 2010, I was diagnosed as having Autism Spectrum Disorder (then it was known as Aspergers). This is in addition to dealing with Anxiety. The combination of those can sometimes be, well not exactly an enjoyable experience. Anyway, it does not negate any of the above, however..I am still me :) I'm also fortunate to be eligible for a program..including music therapy..that helps me cope with these issues.
Sending peace, health, and love to those needing it...all over the world.
I’m Amy, I’m someone with a kind heart and an open mind, searching for something real something honest, deep, and lasting. I’m not here for games or surface-level conversations. I’m here because I believe in love, and I believe that somewhere out there, someone feels the same way.
Age doesn’t matter to me. What matters is honesty, emotional connection, and a genuine desire to build something meaningful together.
A bit about me: I love being outdoors—hiking clears my mind and lifts my spirit. I enjoy cozy movie nights, getting lost in video games, and swimming whenever I can. I value open communication, loyalty, and the little things that make love beautiful: shared laughs, thoughtful gestures, quiet moments.
If you’re someone who’s tired of pretending, ready to love and be loved, and you believe real connection still exists—I’d love to hear from you.
Penpal message / wishes: I'm a male. My age is in the lowest rung of sixties just having crossed the fifties. I live and work in the USA. I'm single.
You can contact me at singlemaleusa @ yahoo . com (same as the one hidden above).
Rejection hurts and so I'll reply to everyone who writes to me. I'll reply every single time you write to me, as long as emails treat us equals.
I've been honest and I'll continue being honest in all my replies. I won't ask you for your phone number. I won't ask you for your photo. I won't ask you for the handles of any of your social media apps. I won't ask you for anything to do with finances including money.
When asking 'why', it puts the other person on a defensive mode. So, I won't ask you 'why' since I accept everyone as they are. You never have to justify/convince/prove/change/.... Yes, that means: No need to tell me why you're writing to me either. 'Why' is not just 'why', even 'what is the reason' is a why.
Penpal message / wishes:
Hello Ladies!
I am here, in search of a female pen pal, preferably a woman, in the 50 plus age group, I am seeking a pen pal friendship, by exchanging emails on a daily basis, it could get interesting!
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