Penpal message / wishes: I’m writing from a place of simple honesty. I’m someone who believes that everyday life still carries meaning especially when people take time to listen to one another.
I come from a working class background, where effort matters and words aren’t wasted. My days are shaped by responsibility, routine, and the quiet pride of doing what needs to be done. I have learned that character shows up most clearly in small choices: showing up on time, keeping your word, and treating people fairly even when no one is watching.
I’m interested in corresponding with someone who values reflection and experience. I believe age brings perspective, and that stories especially the unpolished ones are worth sharing. I enjoy hearing how people navigated change, setbacks, work, family, and the moments that shaped who they became.
In return, I offer sincerity and respect. I write thoughtfully and listen carefully. I believe good conversations don’t need to impress; they just need to be real. I’m not looking for perfection or performance just steady, human exchange.
If you enjoy letters that feel grounded, reflective, and unhurried, I think we could have meaningful correspondence. Life is busy, but there’s still room for words that matter
Penpal message / wishes: It's easy to become disillusioned with trying to meet people on the internet. I recently saw something on the news the other day talking about how frustrated people are with all the ghosts and scammers populating these sites trying to connect people. Of course, this here is people searching for pen pals but the principal applies just the same. Hell, it's hard enough just sifting through everyone just trying to find who you might have something in common with. Jumble that up with a bunch of ghosts that disappear or scammers trying to steal from you and this process turns quite disheartening. So... it's easy to see why so many people put no effort into their introductions. Why put heart into a thing you don't believe will get anything out of it? It's easy to see why so many people cut others off with the first red flag. It seems sort of like the common thing to do, right? Besides, there's always the next option if the one in front of you looks a bit wilted around the edges. And yet how can one find what they want if they are only looking the easiest way? How often do we pass up what is good for the idea of what is perfect? I'm far from perfect and a walking red flag. I'm in prison and have been locked up most of my adult life. If you want my past, you'll hear it unpolished and won't like it. And believe, I've lost count the number of rejections I've experienced. And I consider myself lucky with the fantastic connections I have found with people online. Most all of which have fizzled away. Some my fault and others out of my control. And as I've grown older, I've only regretted that I haven't tried harder. Getting ghosted always feels a little personal. Opening up and being vulnerable only to be greeted with silence leaves it's scars. And the fact that I still try is some days absolutely exhausting. However, I will find something good... maybe even perfect. Fact is, hard work is never wasted and always pays, even if not in the way intended.
Anyone still actually reading will hopefully resonate enough with some of that to finish this out. I won't lie, even when it would seem to make life easier. I value people who understand the importance of that. I'm not who I was when I came to prison. I think everyone always says they don't wish to be known for their worst days but I've found very few are actually willing to give others the same grace. I've done enough soul searching in life that I've gained a fair amount of maturity and have enough random knowledge I surprise most. As for hobbies... I'm passionate about sports and D&D and people. If you've got a hobby that means a lot to you, I'm interested. Maybe not because I like a thing but simply because I can understand putting one's time towards a pursuit. Last thing is this. It's an absolute pain to talk to people in prison. All of them have their own messaging and phone and emailing services. Most prisoners you run across on sites like these have someone who is helping them to put up these ads and possibly even forwarding them emails. I'm lucky enough to have my brother. However, this also means I can't talk to you via text nor on any of the Zangi or Google chat services out there, much as I would like to. Worse, I really can't talk to anyone outside the US. The people who run our phones and tablets in the state essentially make it impossible for international people to do. This is a real bummer because most of the best people I've talked to have been outside the US. Thank anyone who actually made it through this long winded read and hope to hear from you soon
Hobbies:sports music movies gym traveling cuddling kissing christmas holiday chillin out indoors person Penpal message / wishes: this is good bye 4 good hope every one finds what they are looking for I'm just not worth time or effort and I just decided I'm done now and no females who are looking for either friends or a relationship I hope they find it good bye 4 ever
but now I'm just looking for new friends I know some one found me and I found her ok
is there any Philippines girls ages 19 to 25
I'm looking for a long term girlfriend and I will tell you 1 last time I will not help you with any thing so please don't ask or beg me at all
is there any girls who are indoors person I don't like being outside at all not ever ok
any single girls with no kids and have the same hobbies as me if so please write me back
I only talk to girls who don't have any kids at all and I hope you understand ok
IF YOU ARE GOING TO BEG ME FOR MONEY GIFT CARDS APPLE CARDS GAS MONEY OR ANY THING KEEP MOVING
I'm looking for a long term girlfriend who lives
in Minnesota ages 18 to 30 years old and I want a girlfriend with NO KIDS AT ALL and I like them to be 5'4 slim long hair pretty and I hope we have the same hobbies I'm going to be 43 next year and I'm single NO KIDS I live alone and 1 huge thing DON'T EVER ASK ME FOR MONEY GIFT CARDS CLOTHES OR ANY OF THAT I have been single since 2011 and I live in Plymouth Minnesota and I visit my parents every chance I get and if any girls talk to me they can't have kids at all me and my parents go to Church a lot I'm a great guy to be around and I work 5 days a week 6 1/2 hours a day and I love my job and I love making my own money and I like going clothes shopping for me and I live in a Apartment alone for almost 10 years and I hope we find each other soon I Only want a girlfriend I DON'T EVER WANT TO BE MARRIED and when ever I get a chance I like to go on road trips and I will tell you more about me later ok and I'm 5'6 short hair and a beard and I'm really great guy to be with and it would be nice to have a girlfriend to come back to the apartment to every day and put a smile on her face and hug her and kiss her and be happy together and I hope she finds me soon ok and I hope she will have a great Holiday ok and I'm not in to body builders and I like skinny blonde or brown hair straight hair her height has to be 5'4 or 5'3 and I'm sorry I'm very picky when it comes to finding a girlfriend ok I like naughty girls who will do things for guys ok and I hope we find each other soon ok I only TALK to girls
who are 21 years old to 31 years old from USA I would like to talk to girls from Minnesota USA and the girls can't have any kids I will not talk to any one who has kids ok at my apartments they do allow dogs cats but they have to be 30LBS hope to hear from you soon ok and I will only talk to girls who don't have any kids and I would like for them to be living in Minnesota and some one near Plymouth Minnesota and ages 18 to 30 years old ok and I've never talked to a College girl and I hope we find each other soon I'm going to tell you for the last time I'm not going to help you with money or gift cards or phone cards or internet money not gas money no nothing ok if people keep asking me for money or gift cards I will leave this penpal site 4 ever and I don't want any one contacting me ever again I'm sick and tired of telling them I can't or won't help them ok I'm looking for a girlfriend who likes to be in doors most of the time and be a happy couple and I'm only here for a girlfriend NOT TO SEND PEOPLE MONEY OR GIFT CARDS and I would like to be friends with guys ages 18 to 21 and girls ages 18 to 29 ok I want a very naughty girlfriend who will send me certain kinds of pictures or video's and I can't wait for the Christmas Holiday to come Happy Holidays everyone I hope to find a girl with the same hobbies as me and I only text on Imessage no other apps ok IF ALL YOU ARE GOING TO DO IS BEG ME FOR MONEY OR APPLE CARD OR ANY OF THOSE THINGS YOU CAN KEEP MOVING I will not give that to you or help you with that so keep moving I'm not here for that I'm only here for a relationship ok any girls ages 18 to 25 years old DON'T ASK ME FOR ANY THING I WILL BLOCK YOU OK hope every one had a great holiday hope to hear from you soon ok only girls from Minnesota ok are are the names of the cities where I want the girls from Minnetonka Plymouth New hope Minneapolis St. Louis park Maple Grove ok please read my own thing I want a girl who is a indoors kind of girl I'm a indoors kind of guy and I'm looking for a indoors kind of girl PLEASE PLEASE DON'T ASK ME for gifts money gift cards phone cards I can't help you at all I just want a straight girlfriend who will not ask for that stuff at all not ever and I hope to find her and looking for her to be living in Minnesota ok I would love a very naughty girlfriend with a nice little B***ok talk to you soon ok bye now
Penpal message / wishes: Would you like to be my sugar baby, my doll, my lover while I pay you weekly allowance and if you show me your loyalty and kindness I will increase your allowance biweekly as Extra income for you. All I need is just to be happy with you. I need your attention at any time you can give it babe..I just want you to be there for me of course we can meet in persons, we can
go on a dinner date I’m a very lonely woman. I am a CEO i work a lot and I don’t have much time for myself, i will need you to run some errands for me sometimes when you are free.
Penpal message / wishes: I am a 47-year-old woman in the Metro Detroit area of Michigan, the mitten, where the weather has opinions and winter builds character whether you asked for it or not. I am happily married. Solidly. Calmly. Not “it’s complicated” and not interested in complicating it. I am not looking for romance, flirting, emotional affairs, or seeing where anything goes. It goes nowhere. Hard stop.
I am only looking for female pen pals between the ages of 30 and 65. That is not personal, it is practical. I want to write to women who have lived some life. Women with stories, opinions, scars, and perspective earned the long way around.
I am poor. Not tragically, not dramatically, just factually. I do not have money, gifts, financial help, or surprise generosity. If that is what you are looking for, please move along without resentment. I am rich in thoughts, observations, humor, and spirals. That is the full inventory.
I only do email letters. No snail mail, no packages, no swaps, no stationery expectations. Email lets us write long letters at odd hours without turning it into a production.
I like tidy correspondence. Polite check-ins. Thoughtful, curated updates that show someone paused long enough to think before hitting send. I appreciate structure and intention. I like letters that know how to begin.
And then I want them to unravel.
I want emails that start out normal and veer into tangents, memories, half-finished thoughts, and accidental honesty. I want side quests. I want parenthetical comments that spawn more parentheticals until the original point disappears and nobody minds, because something better replaced it.
If you overthink, overexplain, overshare a little, apologize for it, and then keep going anyway, we will probably get along.
I like abandoned buildings in a reverent way. Old factories, closed schools, hospitals that became ghosts. Detroit has plenty. Places that still remember people. Cemeteries do the same thing for me. Quiet, honest, grounding. If that feels peaceful instead of creepy, we’re aligned.
I care about things. Feminism is baseline. Environmentalism matters. Black lives matter. Animals matter because they didn’t consent to any of this. Caring is exhausting, but indifference is worse.
Art is oxygen. Drawing, doodling, painting when words won’t cooperate. I like color, repetition, and mess. Classic children’s books still matter to me because they understood fear, wonder, and resilience before adults tried to sand the edges off everything.
Museums make me lose time. Ballet is brutal and beautiful. Theater matters because humans are imperfect. Musicals make me emotional and I’m fine with that.
Autumn is my favorite season. Hoodies, rain, apple orchards, bonfires, thunderstorms, and falling asleep to the sound of rain like the world is breathing for you.
Music matters. I still blast it like it’s the 90s. Streaming is great. Mixtapes were better. Singing in the car is mandatory.
I like body art. Tattoos that mean something and tattoos that used to. Long showers that turn into accidental therapy. Pillows that know how you sleep.
Animals are essential. Otters are chaos. Bees are tiny saints. Butterflies are proof that transformation is messy and still works. I garden with uneven success and stubborn hope.
I love rain, naps, tea that’s too hot, quiet that hums, and days where doing nothing feels earned.
I write. Poetry when I’m brave. Prose when I’m stubborn. Lists when I’m overwhelmed. Letters when I’m hopeful. I want emails that wander and end somewhere unexpected.
I like tangents, humor that doesn’t punch down, and friends who are made slowly. I swear sometimes. I laugh at the wrong moments. I’m slightly off-color and occasionally crude.
Cemeteries matter because mortality keeps things real. I’m not morbid. I’m practical with feelings.
Comfy clothes are sacred. Sweats, old hoodies, bare feet, pillows stacked wrong, and falling asleep to something you’ve already seen so your brain will finally shut up.
What I want in a pen pal is presence, not efficiency. Someone who can spiral with me. Someone who understands that nonsense is sometimes how truth sneaks in. Someone who can be thoughtful, funny, boring, and human.
You don’t have to like everything I like. You do have to be curious, kind, and capable of depth without drama.
Tell me about the weather and then derail. Tell me what you reread when you’re sad. Tell me about a place that feels haunted in a good way. Tell me something small that made you feel human.
This is not romance. This is not networking. This is two grown women exchanging words because words still matter.
Email letters only. Women only. Ages 30 to 65. No money. No romance. Spiraling welcome.
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