Penpal message / wishes: PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU RESPOND TO THIS POST.
Hello everyone. I'm here with the intention of finding a soulmate and hopefully establish a real relationship. I'm not looking for an online relationship or long distance relationship. I'm here for an actual genuine connection with someone who's not actually afraid of wanting a real relationship. I also want to take the time to share a bit about myself just to save you some questions so here goes.
I'm a 33 year old black male and single. I'm originally from Alabama born and raised. Right now I'm currently living in Long Beach, California. I also want to note that I'm b i s e x u a l and I'm not really much of a social person. I've never been married and I don't have any kids nor do I plan to do either in the future for multiple reasons. As for what I do for a living unfortunately I don't have a job at the moment and I don't have much work experience so I'm kinda just doing my own thing. I have to mention this because I want to be honest and very transparent and I know that I'm gonna keep getting asked about it and it's honestly annoying to me.
I also want to take the time to enforce a few rules before you decide to reach out to me. If you fail to follow any of these rules then I simply won't respond to you and your email will be blocked. No if's, and's, or but's.
1.) If you decide to reach out to me I prefer that you send me a voice message rather than texting me so I know that you're real and serious. If you text me first then I will just ignore you period. I'm honestly tired of receiving random texts from spammers and people who don't even take me seriously.
2.) I will no longer respond to emails due to spammers and fake people. If I receive an email from you just know that it will be ignored and I will block your email period.
3.) If you're a married or single mother and reading this post don't even bother messaging me as I prefer to connect with someone who's actually not married and no kids.
With all the rules out of the way if you do decide to reach out, just know that I'm a real person and I'm not here for fun and games either so I suggest that you exercise your common sense and I don't tolerate stupidity. I'm looking for someone who's genuine and actually wants to have conversations with me on a regular basis and go from there. Also no scammers please and thank you.
With all that being said I'm open to having conversations with anyone regardless of race, gender, and/or cultural background as long as you're between the age of 20 and older. I'm not this site that often, but my contact info is down below so you're welcome to reach out to me anytime. Hope you all have a good day and take care.
Hobbies:I like cooking , listening to music and outdoor activities Penpal message / wishes: I like one who is open about his thoughts and feelings. To feel safe being honest with him — even about tough stuff.
He doesn’t play games or hold grudges.
Apologizes when wrong, and means it.Mutual respect is at the center of the relationship.
He doesn't keep secrets or create doubt.
Shows love in ways that matter to me — whether through words, actions, touch, or time.
Makes me feel valued and appreciated regularly.
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Hobbies:Myrtle Beach,shooting pool, tattoos,movies,hanging out, Penpal message / wishes: Hey I’mLucinda I’m 35 yo. I’m a widow and mother of a 16 yo son . My sons in a Military boarding school. I’m looking for friends precisely men, friends. I did go to Mackie Brown college and got my Associates.But I have gotten that because I had to get a real job. So here I am. My husband was in the Army national guard. He was a sergeant 118th infantry regiment was sent to Afghanistan.. This unit was attacked by men with an RPG then took on small arms fire anyways he got killed. I didn’t want to get a job at Beechwood farms like my husband. I socially drink and smoke now and then . Drop me a note of your interested.
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Name: Brianna C.Gender:femaleAge Group:31-40 E-Mail Address:Hidden, click here to show e-mail City & Country: Louisville
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Hobbies:Dancing, movie, reading Penpal message / wishes: I’m single looking for a serious relationship with a loving and understanding man who is ready to make me feel loved again and not hurt me….kindly respond to this if you are ready for something serious.
Hobbies:Cooking, Dancing Penpal message / wishes: I’m interested in fun conversation with everyone. Yes I prefer women. Give me a buzz and let’s see how it goes. Say something aside from hi etc.
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