Penpal message / wishes: Man, forties and currently evaluating my life. I have no regrets thus far and generally happy with my lot. But I crave some contact. Someone to check in on me just as often as I check in on them.
I have found in the past this can be all one way. I email or message people to see how they are. So a few years ago I stopped, just to see who would contact me. Not many. Some 'friends' I have not heard from at all. I have had email friends too, some really good ones who email for years and then... nothing. I chased but get no reply. Odd. But such is life these days.
I hold down a good job, I love my career choice but the admin of managing a team can grind me down. I stay out of the office politics. I few hobbies and am trying to travel more to overcome my dislike (not fear) of flying and going to places where I can't speak the lingo. I like to game too but only casually. I like to read as I commute too. I always feel I should be doing more, attending live events and that but it's never been me and I need to get over myself and not be jealous of what others do.
What am I looking for? Someone real. I have been on sites and have a good sixth sense. If it feels too good to be true it usually is and I'll move on. Connection is important to me, we have to get on. I have a dry sense of humour and can be self deprecating too. If you don't like this, or me talking humourously about the good and bad things that happen in life then we are unlikely to get on. I can be a difficult person to crack, sometimes that is a sign it is not meant to be.
Prefer females, my long standing and now disappearedemailpals have been female. My age or older. Neither are a deal breaker but just I find I naturally get on with.
Think that'll do for now. Will anyone reply? Maybe. I don't know. What have you got to lose? I would rather you pick me, you must get bombard with the weird and wonderful as it it.
Assertive, no-nonsense Master, late 40s, seeks compliant and submissive (UK ONLY) female, ideally married or attached, for ongoing email s lavery arrangement.
I am more than happy to answer any questions - but you MUST feel yourself to have an unfulfilled, submissive urge and be prepared, at least in principle, to make a wholehearted commitment. Please do not answer otherwise. Only authentic females and no 'freds in frocks' - these will be identified extremely quickly and dismissed - do NOT waste either your time or mine with any pretence.
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