Penpal message / wishes: Hey all, im just an open, playful girl out exploring and having fun..
might not be the most regular girl ever, but still rather fun and sweet i feel. *smiles*
try to be kind, open and respectful to most anyone i meet.
big believer in personal honesty.. dont really like buying into things just because its the popular opinion, or what you're supposed to believe in..
had a couple of pretty big realizations about feminism and traditional gender roles pretty recently.. and that those roles started for a reason, is as much biological and instinct as cultural and societal *shrugs*
about how peoples instincts lay to dominant and submissive by nature..
masculine inner instinct is to lead, take charge, take control and take responsibility.. to protect and provide..
feminine inner instinct is to support, follow strongest man, nurture, obey and please to earn place kind of..
modern thinking flipped that, men are dangerous, selfish and oppressive, women are strong, independent and oppressed..
and its just so much bullshit you know, we are who we are, can try to change but.. well gender roles and views came into being for a reason :P
isnt chauvinism, isnt misogyny and certainly isnt evil..
its just natural instincts and biology, can fight it sure.. but wont ever go away! *winks*
is a kind of a movement i feel that people think.. girl would be dumb if she wants to be a regular housewife and have a man provide for her...
and a man is evil if he wants an obedient respectful girl at home... is kind of insane really *shrugs*
like i said had a realization recently.. always enjoyed playing a submissive role in bedplay... but was just some kink you know.. *naughty smile*
but now starting to see more and more.. its natural and sort of necessary and not just in the bedroom, by very nature.. men are dominant and women are submissive.. dont all live up to it, live it out.. but its still there
most girls wont admit it but deep down all want a man to smile proudly at them and call them a good girl
so yea dont always fit in.. but i enjoy being me so aint gonna change *winks*
not quite a party girl, but not entirely a stay at home girl either.. depends on mood and situation.. but just as happy snuggling on couch with a book as out with friends!
like i said im open and try to be honest in all things, dont like to censor myself... but isnt a reason to be mean or rude i feel.. basic respect and courtesy isnt hard really hard!
is a bit too much expectation in people online, especially girls ive found that... they can act how they want, be as arrogant, rude as they want and they should still just...
be given respect and consideration anyway.. that people should be grateful they even look their way and a sorta feeling that men are bad for following nature and wanting to be attracted to girls!
haha is nothing wrong with a look and a wolf whistle! *winks*
other then that.. not a vry ambitious girl me, and well.. always been a bit spoiled i'll admit.. so dont have any big plans, dreams or anything.. im just.. going with the flow for most part.. hah
Hobbies:Interests: Travelling Metal/rock music socialising with friends. Penpal message / wishes: I'm down to earth very intelligent great sense of humour.
Im English-Finnish but am originally from London UK been staying in Stockholm Sweden with my Finnish wife.
I know some of the Finnish language and few words of Italian French Swedish
I am looking for Pen Pals from UK (mainly) i am open to other countries but in Europe only countries only. I do not judge but keep it real
Not into politics or religion. I will give my address but when i feel ready. please respect that.
Female/Male My group age is, 21+ even though it states 19-22 i won't reply if your not over 21+
Introduce yourself by telling your age and country when writing to me. Also i require that you have Facebook/Instragram. I do not reply to gmail google uploads of some random beautiful woman pretending to be from Europe lol.
Hobbies:Drawing, writing Penpal message / wishes: Hello! Im 22years old and looking for a penpal buddy! I love to write and being creative. Im not really looking for someone to meet in the future since i got socialfobia so im ONLY looking for someone to write with on paper.So ONLY snailmail! :) I dont do videochats or phonecalls! Doesnt matter where you are from as long as you can either write in english or swedish! And you rather be between 18-28! Send me a mail if you want to me my penpal buddy!
If you are heavy religious and talk much about your religion, please dont mail me. I respect everyone and their religion but i myself is not religious and do not like to talk about stuff like that. So if you are, im not the right person for you!
DO NOT ADD ME ON SKYPE OR ANYWHERE ELS. ONLY REACH OUT TO ME ON MY MAIL.