Hobbies:Writing, reading, gaming, discovering places Penpal message / wishes: I'm looking for a penpal, preferrably someone who is spiritual or interested in paganism. I love doing snailmail! I'm in a happy relationship and have no money to give apart from friendship.
I'm looking for a couple of snail mail pen pals who are significantly older or younger than me. I'm 26, and you should either be...
•35 or older
•30-34 if you are very successful financially and/or are extremely intelligent (high IQ, have or studying towards PhD, have a master's degree in a delightfully niche topic, etc)
•29 - 34 if you are some sort of psychologist or writer
Two main reasons for this:
I don't usually click with people my age. There are anomalies, but typically the people I forge connections with are younger or older than me.I want to learn...
From those who are older I want your experience to rub off on me. In some ways I am childish and naive, and I struggle at adulting. I want to know how a mature person lives.
From those who are younger I want to hear the growing pains, the hopes and dreams, the youthful enthusiasm. I want to live vicariously through you. My younger years were a blur - I'm not sure I was fully self-aware - and it would be good to time travel and start again.
What else will we talk about?
Whatever friends talk about. I'm at my best when discussing ideas. I also want to exchange random, nuanced thoughts and opinions. I want to delve into the so-called "uninteresting" details of your daily life. These are the ingredients that make you 'you', and I don't want to miss out on any of it.
For work I have an office job in media. And there is nothing else to say about that, unless you are interested in topics like how to steadfastly endure monotony, how to work in an open office without regular mental breakdowns, or five creative ways to surf the web and not get caught. Some day I will get paid for writing, and then I will have more to say about work.
I wouldn't say I'm a loner, but my criteria for who qualifies as one may be more stringent than yours. In the non-virtual world I seldom find people that I prefer to talk to over reading a book, watching a romcom, playing card games, browsing Reddit, watching YouTube, tidying my room, washing dishes, doing my laundry. I have friends, but we don't talk much. Though there is a girl at work I've been talking more to recently. That's fun. And there is a guy I talk to at work, though the conversation subject matter is almost exclusively limited to LeBron James and soccer.
To fulfil my innate need to socialise I pen pal. I've had online pen pals, and now I'm determined to develop close bonds with people by exchanging letters. Letter writing appeals to me because it forces you to be thoughtful. Thoughtful, introspective conversation is excellent. And you aren't distracted by external stimulation - noise, eyes staring back at you, body language, etc. It focuses the mind. I want the written word to be my world, and I want your letters to be my adventure.
Hobbies:Art,baking,walking,films Penpal message / wishes: Hello, my name is Emily i am 28 years old and live in somerset england.
I like baking, and also going on long walks in the countryside! I like to travel, but have a lot more countries i would like to visit!
I am into men, however recently I have been feeling attracted to women as well, this is a new feeling to me but one I am curious about and would like to explore more! So would be interested in hearing from women in similar positions, or maybe if you are up for trying some role play?
Hobbies:I'm all about horses, reading, watching my series Penpal message / wishes: Hi there!
Do you wanna a penpal who you can talk to about anything and everything? Well, this is your lucky day because you found one! haha
My name is Edina. I'm 24, I love animals, reading, horse riding, going for a walk, being in nature.
I am not going to share much in here other we won't have anything to talk about. Lol
I am honest and understanding, you can talk about anything and everything with me. I have penpals I have been talking to for years and we became very good friends. If you are looking for something like that, I might be the one.
UPDATE: can't believe I have to write this... PLEASE no dirty emails, dick and anus photos. I am not looking for anything like that. I'm not looking for boyfriend, neither a husband, nor sexual relationships. Just save my time and yours by not sending these emails cause I'm not going to reply and will block you straight away.
Other than that if you really want a friend than I look forward to hearing from you.