Name: Nikolai ..
Gender: male Age Group:23-30 E-Mail Address: Hidden, click here to show e-mail
City & Country:
Spain
Hobbies: jazz, dancing, languages, travel, hiking, camping, trekking, movies, psychology, theater, ...
Penpal message / wishes: Hey! I'm Nikolai, 28, and I'm looking for a pen pal who values real conversation over small talk - someone curious about life and not afraid to go beneath the surface. I have tried this before but none of my pen pals stuck around, and now feels like a good time to give this another go!
I have a background in mathematics but currently I work in machine learning and develop birdsong recognition models for wildlife protection organizations. My job is remote, so I am currently living as a digital nomad and exploring the various countries in Europe. While I do enjoy the lifestyle of traveling a lot, I'd like to use pen palling to have some more stable ongoing exchange with someone new.
Random details that might give you a sense of who I am: I love fountain pens and good tea, I really enjoy hiking & trekking, I used to have rabbits as a kid, my favorite city is Valencia, and my friends generally describe me as someone who is both very reliable and very spontaneous. I have had a lot of hobbies over the years but currently, my main hobby is swing dancing (think 30s & 40s jazz) which has captured my heart.
What I'm really looking for is authentic exchange with people who are curious about life and willing to be real. I love discussing everything from how a piece of music moved you, to what you've been learning about yourself lately, to bigger questions about meaning, connection, and how we navigate this strange business of being human. If you're someone who values depth over small talk, who's passionate about something (anything!), and who isn't afraid of vulnerability, we'll probably get along well.
I should be honest: like everyone, I have my struggles and contradictions. I'm not looking to present a polished version of myself, and I hope you won't either. :) If you feel like we might get along, drop me a message?
PS: in case it's relevant to you, we can write in English, French, German or Spanish.
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