Hobbies:erotica, hunting, fishing, camping Penpal message / wishes: Hi. Im looking for a woman who would like to talk about almost anything. But who would like to share erotic fantasies, and stories as well.Married is good too. Age is not all that important, but prefer a woman with some life experience. Im not looking to change anyone's life. And i am definitely not sending out money. Any requests from Africa will be blocked!! Thanks!!!
Hobbies:Not looking for romance! Penpal message / wishes: To save you married guys out there a lot of time - single looking for single. And did I mention that I’m not looking for a partner? :) :)
So here’s the thing : I’ve posted ads on here before, met some nice people, got burned (badly) once, but now I’m back again. I keep coming back because I’m either too lazy or too unmotivated to try another method, or my deeply buried optimistic side is trying, once again, to emerge. Maybe a bit of both, who knows!
This time around I’m going to try and be as specific as possible about what I want and why.
I’m in my middle fifties, still working full time. Also, I’m a card-carrying introvert. By the time I get home at night all I want to do is stay home. Recently my two closest friends have moved away, leaving a substantial void in my life. I miss just talking! If my ad is clicking with you so far, you know what I’m getting at - just day-to-day nattering back and forth, whether it’s in person, texting, email, whatever - it’s having a connection out there with someone who wants to hear your news, or rants or anything else that’s on your mind. I used to love getting texts at work from my friends - sharing a bit of their day with me. It’s hard to say the L word, there’s such a taboo against admitting it, but I’m going to say it all the same - I get lonely at times, and even though right now, I’m too tired at night to go out and socialize, and yes, often too damn shy, I still want to connect!
My life is pretty simple, mundane even. But I read a lot, I’m curious about pretty much everything, and I have a sometimes sarcastic, dry sense of humour. I may not have a towering intellect, but I can carry on a conversation :)
I’m going to be pretty blunt about what I’m looking for, as I discovered last time being not absolutely crystal clear about what I want and what I will and won’t bring to an online friendship can be a pain in the butt for all parties concerned.
So here we go - I work with a bunch of women, my friends were women, so I’d like to talk to men for a change! (older men that is - 40 plus) I’m not married, and have no kids. I’ve seen a lot of ads from married men in unhappy marriages looking for some kind of connection, for any number of reasons, Guys, I feel for you, but honestly, talking with someone who’s attached makes me uncomfortable.
This next part may sound odd, but what the hey, I’m trying to be honest here. I’m looking to establish an initial connection via email, yes. I know we all have to do the getting to know one another dance, which involves long emails. I used to love writing those long, once a week emails to a previous penpal, but now, for some unknown reason, the idea of it doesn’t grab me at all. Firing off five short emails in a day appeals to me. Perhaps it’s a getting older thing, perhaps I’m reflecting our sound bite society, but that’s what I’m looking for. A conversation. A day to day conversation. Nattering. Bantering. Arguing (politely) :) One that could travel it’s way from emails to texting, who knows? And so, penpals from North America would be preferred, although if you’re from “across the pond” and are a diehard night owl, perhaps it could work :) :) Where there’s a will, there’s a way, yes? :)
I am on Hangouts from time to time.
No snail mail please :)
This last bit needs to be stated - I’d put it in all caps if it would help get the point across :
If you’re looking for a soulmate, partner, love of your life, I truly hope you find them. But it ain’t me. I’m single for a reason - mainly because I like it and it suits me, and at this stage in my life I think I’d probably be a crappy partner! Friend, yes. Partner? Nooo. Will that change? What’s the saying? Miracles can happen?
FRIENDS ONLY.
You want to talk about art, architecture, the environment, social media, books, flora, fauna, movies, drivers who make you cuss a blue streak, food, family, history, astronomy, astrology (lol)? An endless list...it changes and evolves from day to day.
So there you go. That’s me. This is what I want. I hope you’re out there. I’m thinking it’s ok to say you’re lonely and it’s ok to try and reach out. Let’s talk!
Hobbies:Reading, computers, Home Improvement Penpal message / wishes: I will start with an honest disclaimer, so as not to lead anybody astray - I am married guy, who is not looking for anything beyond an easy going, mainly online friendship, sharing whatever we both find interesting That opening alone will probably have most of you clicking away now...
Second "warning", I am fairly good at detecting scammers and the like, so if your intent is to squeeze some money from a lonely old guy on the internet, don't waste your time. I will figure your game out sooner than later.
For those who remain and keep looking, I am a retired, 60 year old married white guy from western Canada who is in a long term ,marriage that has progressed into a distant connection. I am looking to connect with a fun, flirty easy going woman to get to know as an email friend and see where it goes from there.. Being from a small town, I know the chances of finding the type of friend I seek nearby are remote, so I am tossing this out to the good old internet to see if there are any women interested in what I offer - a friendly, no pressure connection with an easy going, open minded guy who is a good listener and I have a good sense of humor. This is for mainly online sharing and not a new "in person" relationship
I am looking for a match to my personality - easy going, with a fun and positive outlook on the world. Someone, who like me, is feeling a bit lonely and or neglected in their current life and looking for someone to brighten up the days.. Perhaps a "secret Friend" to confide in once you get to trust me. I am not looking to change my life or yours in a big way, just seeking to ad some extra smiles in our days through a bit of online sport. Your age or marital status is not an issue as long as you accept that you are talking to a 60 year old married guy. I must also ad that while I will be a loyal friend, life does happen, so if you require extremely frequent email exchanges or fly into a rage or panic if I don't answer for a day or so, then I am not likely for you.
I will treat my new friend with care and respect and given my situation, discretion of course. I don't have a set agenda or wild expectations about what this can lead to - I am just hoping to find a fun, compatible friend. We can let things develop based on what happens as we get to know each other.
if anybody is still reading this, and you looking for a similar type connection and feel there may be a possibility of a friendship, send me a note and lets see where we can go.
Hobbies:reading and writing erotica Penpal message / wishes: I don't just like reading and writing erotica. I also play classical guitar, make clocks and fine furniture. I am a professional and intelligent person with an imaginative mind. I am seeking any completely uninhibited female who would like to maintain a long term email relationship. I don't judge and I am equally comfortable with any race, age,size, religion etc. I consider myself to be spiritually supportive and a caring person with a truthful and sincere mindset. Let's see where this can lead ....
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